Work has officially become weird. One of my colleagues (a much older colleague) has been hitting on me and actually tried to move in for a kiss. I think I actually felt my skin crawl just at the idea that he was standing so close to me. I quickly moved and didn't have to be in an even worse situation. What was he thinking? He is double my age and has daughters my age!!!! I have made a point from the first day at work to wear nothing form fitting and nothing that shows skin. What more should I do? This is one of the downsides of being the only female.
I am hoping that I'll be able to go home and take a break to figure out my next move.
that stinks!
ReplyDeletei know the feeling and it stinks!
actually, one of the reasons why i like my job is that the one guy who has such tendencies has that image of me that i would bite his head off... so he only hints and it makes me sick to my stomach, and i play dumb...
my only advice is that you don't act like a victim around him... give your presence more strength; it will baffle him and hopefully intimidate him
thank you! i haven't seen him in a couple weeks and i'm keeping my fingers crossed that i won't see him for a long time...the thing i don't understand about guys is they don't know what is in their league and what is not in their league...
ReplyDeletegirls usually won't flirt with a guy if she knows he's out of her league...but guys think any girl is in their league...