if you didn't follow you gut, and things turned out not the way you want them, or badly, will you regret it very much?? if yes, then follow ur gut. If things get worse, you will get the "I told you so" after all it's ur choice.
ummmm we are humans... we never follow advice... cause simply if we did we will forever wonder how would it have been if we have followed our gutsmaybe u need to think more.... the other person will be upset for a while and then will let it go don't worry...
I say follow your heart
:) thanks everyone!So I talked to the person about it and we agreed on a happy middle ground...and it seems to be working!